How to tell if you're lesbian?

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FAQ

Is this quiz scientifically accurate or professionally validated?

This quiz is a self-reflection tool, not a scientific assessment. It's based on common LGBTQ+ experiences, but only you can determine your identity. For professional guidance, consider speaking with an LGBTQ+-friendly counselor.

Will my quiz results be stored or shared with anyone?

No, your privacy is completely protected. This quiz runs in your browser and doesn't collect or store any data. Your answers are completely anonymous and disappear when you close the page.

What if I'm not sure about some of my answers?

Uncertainty is completely normal when exploring identity. Choose the option that feels closest to your experience. Sexuality can be fluid, so you can retake the quiz anytime as your understanding evolves.

Can I be a lesbian if I've had relationships with men before?

Absolutely. Many lesbians had relationships with men before understanding their sexuality. Your orientation is about who you're attracted to now, not your past relationships. Discovering your identity later in life is completely valid.

What if my quiz result doesn't feel right to me?

Trust your instincts. This quiz is just one tool for self-reflection, not the final word on your identity. Your own feelings matter more than any quiz result. Take what feels useful and ignore the rest.

I'm questioning my sexuality but I'm scared. What should I do?

Questioning is completely normal and you're not alone. Take your time - there's no rush to label yourself. Consider connecting with LGBTQ+ communities or trusted friends. If you need crisis support, you can contact us.